Mike’s Rules


  • It is not my job to fix others.
  • it is ok if others get angry.
  • it is ok to say no.
  • it is not my job to take responsibility for others.
  • I don’t have to anticipate the needs of others.
  • It is my job to make me happy.
  • Nobody has to agree with me.
  • I have a right to my own feelings.
  • I am enough.


  1. Do not meet a person for the first time at your place.